id: 2222,2D
title: Tactics for engaging conflict constructively.
date: 2021-07-18

Tactics for engaging conflict constructively.

• Apply curiosity.
• Share the story made up to fill gaps in the narrative.
• “Not my experience” instead of disagreement.
• Tell me more, help me understand, wondering, curious.
• Compare assumptions.
• Take it back to the problem being solved.
• Both are committed, ask about the other’s interests in this.
• Where is this not meeting your needs?

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Helps to have comfort with vulnerability. Helpful actions.